“ I hear a cute, slim, petite woman claim she is looking for someone who is smart, funny, and kind. RIGHT. Let’s be at least a little honest here.”

She is honest. These things are necessary but not sufficient for her. She didn’t say that as long as the man has these qualities she has no physical preferences. Everyone has a certain range of physical types they find attractive and even if we don’t list them they are still at play. It’s not a court of law where “it may harm your defence if you do not mention when questioned something which you later rely on in court. Anything you do say may be given in evidence.”