This is a perfect description of nice guy syndrome. It's as if these guys have never heard of chemistry or attraction in their lives, and the fact that both parties need to feel it. They think women are attracted to a list of qualities that can be explained and presented as if in a marketing presentation. Attraction is usually instantaneous or at least within a short time of getting to know someone. It's not like qualifying for a loan.
And for every generalization ("Women only like tall men") there are numerous counter-examples.